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The Joy of Christmas

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The twinkling lights, the scent of pine, the familiar carols filling the air—Christmas is more than just a holiday; it’s a feeling, a warmth that spreads through our hearts and homes. It’s a time when the world seems to slow down just enough for us to catch our breath, hold our loved ones close, and savor the moments that truly matter.

At its heart, Christmas is about connection. It’s the time of year when families and friends come together, bridging the distances—both physical and emotional—that may have grown throughout the year. Whether it’s around a dinner table laden with festive treats or beside a roaring fire, these moments of togetherness remind us of what’s truly important: love, laughter, and shared memories.

There’s a special kind of joy that comes from giving, and at Christmas, it shines brighter than ever. It’s not just about the presents wrapped in sparkling paper but the thought and care behind each gift. A handwritten card, a handmade ornament, or even a simple gesture of kindness can light up someone’s day. The true magic of giving lies in the happiness it brings—not only to the receiver but also to the giver.

The beauty of Christmas often lies in the little things—a child’s laughter as they spot the first snowflake, the soft glow of a candle in the window, or the feeling of a cozy blanket as you sip on hot cocoa. These small, quiet joys are what make the season truly magical. In the hustle and bustle, take a moment to pause, breathe, and soak in these fleeting but precious moments.

Christmas traditions, whether old or new, carry a charm that warms the soul. From decorating the tree with ornaments that tell stories of years gone by to baking cookies that fill the house with the smell of nostalgia, these rituals connect us to our past while creating memories for the future. They remind us that joy is found in the simplest of moments, shared with those we love.

Christmas is also a time of hope—a belief in new beginnings and brighter days ahead. It’s a season that encourages us to be kinder, more generous, and more forgiving. It’s a time to reflect on the blessings we have and to share those blessings with others, spreading joy in ways big and small.

As we celebrate the season, let’s carry the joy of Christmas in our hearts, not just for a day but throughout the year. May your days be filled with love, your nights with peace, and your moments with happiness. Whether your holiday is grand or simple, may it be rich in the things that truly matter.

Here’s to a season of warmth, wonder, and joy.

Love,

Carmen

Happy Mother’s Day

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Dear Friends,

As the sun rose on this seemingly perfect day, I couldn’t help but think of Ion Creanga’s words about his mother. His description of his mother in “Childhood Memories” was so beautifully crafted and it stirred up conflicted emotions within me. Memories of my own childhood and relationship with my mother came rushing back, both happy and painful.

“Asa era ea mama in vremea copilariei mele, plina de minunatii, pe cat mi-aduc si eu aminte. Si-mi aduc bine aminte, caci bratele ei m-au leganat cand ii sugeam tata cea dulce si ma alintam la sanu-i, gangurind si uitandu-ma in ochi-i cu drag! Si sange din sangele ei si carne din carnea ei am imprumutat, si a vorbi de la dansa am invatat. Iar intelepciunea de la Dumnezeu, cand vine vremea de a pricepe omul ce-i bine si ce-i rau.”

That’s how my mother was during my childhood—full of wonders— as far as I can remember. And I remember it well because her arms rocked me as I fed and cuddled at her sweet breast, babbling and looking into her eyes fondly! And blood from her blood and flesh from her flesh I borrowed and speaking also from her I learned. And wisdom from God I received when the time came to understand right and wrong.

Ion Creanga, Amintiri din copilarie (Childhood Memories)

There comes a time when we must stop criticizing our mothers. It seems that we never stop blaming the mothers.  What I want to say today is: Can we take a break—just for one day —and show them some compassion? Because being a perfect mother is an unattainable goal. Our expectations of mothers are unrealistic. We expect our mothers to embody Mother Mary, Mother Theresa, Superwoman, and Gaia, all at once. It’s an unforgiving standard of perfection.

May God have mercy on your mother if she ever falls short. May He have mercy on her if she is exhausted and overwhelmed. May He guide her when she doesn’t understand her kids. May He grant her strength if she has desires and longings. May He be with her in moments of terror, despair, hopelessness, confusion, or rage. May He be there for her if life disappoints her. May He support her if she struggles with addiction or a mental illness. And may we forgive her if she ever breaks down or loses control because we often brand mothers as “bad” for any mistakes they make.

Today, instead of judging mothers, let’s take a moment to show them mercy. And if you are a mother yourself and constantly scold yourself for not measuring up …can you release that burden for just one day?  Just for today. Let us show kindness and compassion towards mothers.

Love,

Carmen