Too many women and men find themselves in situations where they lose themselves in the process of holding on to a man or a woman. They became the women or the men who kept being mistreated and formed habits of saying that they were used with being abused. They became the unappreciated women or men and lied to themselves that the whole process was all right. Even when they were undervalued, those women or men learned to say they were fine.
Day after day, they were put last, and they naturally reacted with the same attitude of “whatever.” They became the women or men taken for granted and they dealt with this situation by repeating like a mantra that everything was okay. Even when they became unhappy, they still told people that they were going to be okay.
The ones reading this right now should understand that nobody is worth losing yourself for him or her, nobody is worth suffering for at the expense of your happiness, and nobody is worth tormenting yourself over for the sake of making the other partner happy. At this point, perhaps losing him or her is the only way you would be able to get yourself back because, as much as you wouldn’t want this to be true, he or she was the only thing that was in your way of finding yourself he was the only reason you had lost yourself for so long.
Love,
Carmen Monica
Carmen Monica Oprea 