How often happens to hold speaking the truth because you fear what someone else might think, say, or do? Only speaking the truth will set you free. It will help in finding a balance between your heart and your soul.
Most of my life I tried to avoid conflict, and by doing so, I seldom spoke my truth… I discovered that this wasn’t a great way to live. It wasn’t until I found my voice and learned that it was more important to be real to myself and others than to merely please everyone. Of course, I didn’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings. But then I thought of my feelings.Why should I allow anyone to take me for granted? How fair was I to myself?
I wasn’t fair at all…
I learned from my experiences that all predators pay attention to the easy targets, to the ones who don’t speak up for themselves, to the ones who don’t dare to tell the truth. I met them in a place I have no desire ever to return. And looking back, I just wonder how I have made for so long.
Speaking the truth will disgruntle a few people at first, but trust me, the respect you will earn will outweigh the temporary feeling of displacement you might experience. And if anyone reacts harshly to your truth that response is theirs to own and not yours.
You were born to express yourself, so speaking the truth will set your soul free.
Love,
Carmen Monica
Carmen Monica Oprea 