We spend a lot of energy, time and emotions to resist change because we assume growth must be painful. Sometimes personal growth is uncomfortable, especially learning to set boundaries in relationships. Only when we commit to our authentic self, those surrounding us start to notice that changes are taking place. People grow gradually, just like the plants in a garden. And the day comes when remaining tight in a bud is more painful than blossoming. It is the moment when we decide to follow our call, our deepest desire, when we choose to spread our wings and simply fly.
George Bernard Shaw said that the people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they want.”
We are in charge of our destiny. We must realize that life is too short for compromises and for accepting anything less than the best in everything.
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O multime de energie, timp si emotii este petrecut rezistand unei cresteri pe care o consideram dureroasa. Uneori, dezvoltarea personala nu este comfortabila, in special impunerea unor limite in relatii. Numai atunci cand ne dedicam propriului nostru ‘eu’, cei din jur vor incepe sa observe schimbarile care iau loc. Oamenii cresc treptat,intocmai ca si plantele din gradina. Si vine o zi cand realizezi ca a ramane constrans intr-un boboc este mult mai dureros dacat a inflori. Este acel moment cand decizi sa-ti urmezi propria chemare, cea mai ardenta dorinta a ta, cand decizi sa iti intinzi aripile si sa zbori.
George Bernard Shaw a spus ca oamenii care reusesc in aceasta lume sunt aceeia care se ridica si cauta circumstantele pe care le vreau.
Suntem in controlul propriului nostru destin. Trebuie sa realizam ca viata este prea scurta pentru compromisuri si pentru acceptarea a ceea ce este mai putin decat cel mai bun.
Love,
Carmen Monica
Carmen Monica Oprea 