The world always expects something from you: to be a good son or daughter, a good sister or brother, a perfect wife or husband, a beautiful mother, and father, a competent employee or an amazing boss. Can you rise to these expectations? Are you going to be happy if you fulfill everyone’s dreams and neglect yours? What is more important: your happiness or the other one’s happiness?
As you answer these puzzles, more will come because our world is a web of questions and answers. One thing I know for sure: the world cares only about what it can get from you. It may be in the form of money because people love money. It can be friendship since the concept is still in style. It can be love. Everybody desires something and, in return, you may or may not obtain money, friends or love. Some say that the best in life comes from your desire to make others happy. What you offer doesn’t have to produce money but it has to benefit the peoples. You have to be creative, funny, attractive, smart, ambitious, and people will be drawn to you.
The human mind is a wonder, and you will never see it bounce into action than when it is fighting against evidence that it needs to change. Our psychic has fighting mechanisms to keep everything unchanged. You do that by interpreting every criticism as an insult, or focusing on the messenger instead of the message, or paying attention to the tone and not hearing the content delivered.
My advice is to concentrate on giving you a skill that will make you more interesting and valuable to other people.
Carmen Monica Oprea 